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兄弟姐妹情深不渝的4個關鍵

最後更新的期: 2024 年 3 月 1 日 by 老嫗

在這世上,真正能無私幫忙的只有父母,一起長大的是姐妹兄弟,給你希望的是兒女,親人是上天賜予的,從出生那一刻就註定了,姐妹兄弟是骨肉親人,一起長大、共同奮鬥,卻很難一起變老,古話說:「父母在,人生尚有來處,父母走,人生只剩歸途。」一個家庭裡父母就是主心骨,連接著姐妹兄弟,父母在姐妹兄弟一團和氣,父母不在了,姐妹兄弟的感情就連結不住了,來往越來越少,甚至反目成仇的大有人在,父母在子女心中,有著絕對的權威,總能化解姐妹兄弟之間的衝突和矛盾,繼續和平相處,一旦父母不在了,姐妹兄弟間,誰也不服誰,矛盾自然就產生了,父母在世時,一碗水很難端平,姐妹兄弟之間總有最受寵的,其他自然心理不平衡,父母離世後,這種不平衡就顯化出來了,關係也就大不如前,家和萬事興,親情需要姐妹兄弟彼此包容,共同維護,面對生老病死,姐妹兄弟還是深情牽掛,遇到急事、困難的時候,最後出手幫忙的還是姐妹兄弟,平日雖然吵吵鬧鬧,血脈至親是不能忽視的人脈,唯有愛才能團聚至親,只有將心比心,懂得感恩,才能讓關係穩定且長久。

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小家庭各自安好

不要高估了血脈至親的個性,小時候大傢伙常常吵架,甚至打架,隔天就沒事了,一家人只要是分開了,不在同一口鍋里吃飯,就再也不是從前的那個狀態了,長大了遇到矛盾,誰也不服誰,演變成積怨,每個人都有不同的個性,姐妹兄弟血濃於水,是世上最親的人,沒有什麼事情,不能坐下來好好商量的,只要心中還有愛,矛盾雖然不能解決,至少可以擱置、緩一緩,畢竟姐妹兄弟沒有生活在一起,距離讓我們冷靜,起碼保持一份和平,緩解矛盾當下的壓力,姐妹兄弟之間的相處,再難也不會比職場人際關係難,我們習慣了把壞脾氣,留給最親的人,卻把體諒、包容給陌生人,倘若不能成為姐妹兄弟之間的定海神針,那就做好自己,少掉一些世俗,少掉一些利害,相處自然圓融。生活本來就是一半清醒一半醉,凡事看得糊塗一點,這樣才是人生大智慧。

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成年後維持兄弟姐妹,友好相處要注意4要素

兄弟姐妹,心思放在自己身上

我們常常把好臉色給外人,卻把壞的臉色給了家人,為了生活我們不得不低頭,主動和外人搞好關係,累了一天回家就只剩臭臉一張,更可怕的是,我們常常信了外人,卻不願意聽家人的解釋,外人一句無心話,卻讓我們覺得真實,讓心情更加難受,所有無心的話,都會在無形之中,戳中感情的軟肋,妯娌、婆媳、媳婦與小姑、女婿與岳父母等的矛盾都在所難免,傳聲筒的遊戲,大家都玩過,任務很簡單,一句話傳到最後,已然面目全非,「語言」是殺人於無形的刀,稍不留神良言成惡語,好意成咒罵,矛盾因此加劇,因此改變對姐妹兄弟的看法,慢慢把骨肉之情淡忘,女人天天盯著家務事,枕邊風是否有正能量,就會影響一個人對事情的態度,家庭矛盾只要分清內外,就容易解決了,姐妹兄弟多商量,少讓媳婦、女婿插手,免去人多嘴雜,記住!「好事要齊心協力,壞事要單獨交流。」這十分重要!當然,要維持住感情,除了血緣關係,還需要經常聯絡感情,經常打打電話,見個面,聊一聊各自的生活,偶爾再互相幫一幫,只有這樣經常來往,有感情上的互動,才能維持住感情。

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財產靠自己奮鬥

從古至今有多少人為了利益,可以稱兄道弟,一旦利益衝突,馬上翻臉不認人,老祖宗常說:「兄弟不共財」,也就是說涉及到利益的問題,能輕而易舉地反目成仇,父母辛苦的基業,要如何分配,一方面取決於父母的態度,一方面是家人的包容程度,如果個個有私心,想辦法從父母身上掏錢,形成了爾虞我詐的局面,姐妹兄弟總是互相防備,想私吞父母的財產,一開始就犯了「缺德」的大忌,家務事不能走極端,畢竟血脈相連,是這輩子的緣份,古人常說:「姐妹兄弟的仇恨,來自父母。」不平衡的心理,可以把感情撕裂,一個有本事的人,從步入社會的那一天開始,就該完全擺脫父母的依賴,家裡的錢財,父母願意給就拿著,不願意就算了,遠離財產糾紛,姐妹兄弟的矛盾也就解了, 所謂兄弟,所謂姊妹,是要用心去呵護的,吵架沒關係,生氣沒關係,沒有在一起也沒關係,帶著最初的愛,祝福彼此,「大度」成就獨立的自己、兒孫的榜樣。

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學會包容和分享

自私是天性,潛藏在每個人的心中,在成長過程中,不斷克服自私,讓自己慷慨大方,對外人都能如此,為什麼我們總是,不願意對家人笑一笑呢?姐妹兄弟就是左膀右臂,才是陪你最久的親人,不管財富在誰手裡,利益給了誰,都是在左手或者右手,並沒有弄丟,創造和諧的大家庭,作為大家庭的一員,在不同的個性、工作、心情、婚姻裡,與相同的血脈、孝順、關愛、陪伴等達到平衡,化解家庭矛盾,就是一個求同存異的過程,老話說:「親不親,一家人,打斷骨頭連著筋。」當我們需要幫助的時候,也只有血濃於水的姐妹兄弟了,姐妹兄弟之間,從來沒有深仇大恨,只有過不去的心坎,放不下的面子,捨不得的錢財,不喜歡的事就明講,如果沒有意願就拒絕,這樣關係才會長久,每個人都會有過錯,包容、珍惜家庭才會和睦,想想小時候的艱苦,姐妹兄弟之間的大度,就是活在世上最好的態度,何必到老才要分離。

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